INTJ. Taken Submisssive. Monogamous. Feminist. Law student. Dreamer. Slytherin. Pole dancer. Martial artist.

Diary of a munckin.

Bad photo of me doing a gazelle split on hoops.

Hi! I've recently become interested in the DD/lg style of relationship, I have a secondary blog to some what advertise myself to a future Daddy! I saw your post on after care, and you mentioned a scenario where a lg would be shaking after wards. I don't think I completely understand the sexual side of a DD/lg relationship and what it involves. I was wondering if you would be able to explain to me what it typically involves!! ☺️☺️ Thank you so much Miss! 💛 Sincerely, cumchai

ddlgdoodles:

Aftercare comes along during subspace and subdrop due to endorphine releases and sometimes even adrenaline. These are brought on by intense play scenes that either involve (rough) sex, impact play, anything involving strong amounts of pain (sadomasocism), etc. Not everyone will experience these just from sex but it’s possible to experience a mild form of it. It’s also important to note that not everyone involved in D/s dynamics have an interest in other aspects of BDSM, so no pressure if you don’t have an interest in any of the things I mentioned above.

Anyways, some signs of subspace:

The submissive may
become less verbal in communication as he/she
enters the more “feral” state of subspace. The
Top may notice that the submissve’s ability to speak and to use words to communicate how he or she feels is reduced, and the submssive may only communicate in grunts or moans (which,let’s face it, are difficult to interpret). There are often changes in skin tone; eyes may
roll back in the head. The body may go limp and floppy (which is at odds with the muscle tensing that
would generally be expected with physical punishment).
It’s akin to feeling high and because of this, the sub/bottom may not be able to make rational or safe decisions.
Subdrop, on the otherhand, is the endorphine crash and causes heavy emotions.

Sub Drop can come in many different forms. Sub Drop is the emotional and physical affects of the release and drop of endorphins in the body after a play session.  Most of what you read online are the physical aspects; the fatigue, sadness, aches and pains and recovery from marks. There is a more intense side of Sub Drop that gets very little attention because for each person it is different and describing how to recover can take many forms.

If not cared for, you could go into
depression
just from one play session. The endorphins and other hormones released during play leave your body in such a way that it takes time to rebuild the balance of hormones in your system. You could feel like you have a hang over or partied too hard the night before, you could feel lost and depressed for hours or days.
For example in terms of sex (since you asked), after rough playtimes with Daddy, I get extremely emotional. It’s not uncommon for me to start crying after cumming multiple times. It’s not that I’m particularly sad either, it’s just at that moment I feel such a strong urge to cry that it needs to be released and I break down. My body also shakes too and sometimes I even get extremely dizzy or go limp.
This usually cues Daddy to stop  and ask me how I’m feeling. Based on my answer we either pause or stop completely. He’ll ask me to speak my mind because I tend to ramble about my feelings towards Him. Afterwards He’ll kiss me and reassure me that everything’s okay, that he loves me, I’m special, etc.
However, in scenes that sex is not involved and pain is involved, sometimes a different approach is needed towards giving aftercare. That’s why you see a lot of physical things mentioned in my aftercare kit post. It really depends on the scene, the intensity, and what the sub needs to ensure their comfort and safety.

amyelizabeth:

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yasboogie:

James C. LewisIcons Of The Bible

The series, which will be fully released in October, features 70 models who identify as either Asian, Native American, Hispanic, African, Middle Eastern, Black American and West Indian.

"I think it is very important to see one’s self in the Scripture so that it may become real in their eyes," Lewis told The Huffington Post. "The whitewashing of the Bible has always bothered me. However I’m happy to now have the opportunity to give a different point of view."

"I wish to exhibit a splash of color onto the biblical pages of history with my creative embellishments. By doing so I hope to open the minds and eyes of the ignorant and create open conversations of how we can learn to see the world through colorful lenses. After all, the Gospel of Jesus Christ is intended for everyone."

For those who’d like to see the entire collection, “Icons Of The Bible” will on display from November 2014 to February 2015 in Atlanta, GA.

-waits for white people to flip shit-

This is amazing and I’m going to see it!

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literarysins:

In light of the 50 Shades of Grey trailer coming out today, quick reminder that that book is about an abusive and controlling relationship, not BDSM.

Fanfiction (published or not) is important for women of all ages to explore gender roles and sexuality in a way that is less stigmatized and more accessible. 

But do not do the BDSM community a disservice by calling the relationship described in the book a BDSM experience. 

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Short List of Male Celebrities that beat and/or rape women.

scifigamingmom:

  • Charlie Sheen
  • Sean Connery
  • Gary Oldman
  • David Hasselhoff
  • Mel Gibson
  • Michael Fassbender
  • Nicholas Cage
  • Gary Busey
  • Bill Murray
  • Eminem
  • Alec Baldwin
  • Tommy Lee
  • Josh Brolin
  • Sean Penn
  • Woody Allen
  • Roman Polanski
  • Axl Rose
  • Sonny Bono
  • John Lennon
  • Sean Bean
  • Elvis Presley
  • Kelsey Grammar
  • Chris Brown

Who Tumblr/Internet/Society cares about when they beat/rape women:

  • Chris Brown

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I don’t care that you got into drugs for three months straight, or how much sleep you lost in that period. I don’t care that you went home and fucked that person and woke up at 6am hating everything about yourself, or that you smoked so much you sounded as though your lungs were giving out.

You’re not a bad person for the ways you tried to kill your sadness.

You’re just human, and being human means you need to survive and you do so whichever way you deem fit, fuck everyone else.

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(Source: stayygone, via onebodyseveralselves)

firesighn:

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silvermoon424:

poppypicklesticks:

billybatsonandjameshowlettsbro:

cosmicallycosmopolitan:

billybatsonandjameshowlettsbro:

james-winston:

The Titanoboa, is a 48ft long snake dating from around 60-58million years ago. It had a rib cage 2ft wide, allowing it to eat whole crocodiles, and surrounding the ribcage were muscles so powerful that it could crush a rhinoTitanoboa was so big it couldn’t even spend long amounts of time on land, because the force of gravity acting on it would cause it to suffocate under its own weight.

I’m so glad they aren’t around

omg me too. I’m scared enough of 26 ft long anacondas. I’m so happy Megalodons, those giant sharks, aren’t alive either

Praise natural selection

I remember watching Walking with Beasts or something similar, or some British tv show about evolution

The subject was something like a 12 foot long water scorpion

I was so startled by its sudden appearance and narration that I yelped: “12 fucking feet?!?!  I’m fucking glad it’s extinct!” 

Dude, prehistory was home to some fucking TERRIFYING creatures. For some reason, everything back then was enormous and scary. Extinction doesn’t always have to be a bad thing!

And Poppy, what you saw was an arthropod known as Pterygotus (it was actually featured in Walking With Monsters). Not only was it as big (or maybe even bigger) than your average human, it had a stinger the size of a lightbulb. REALLY glad that bugger isn’t around anymore.

Also, Megalodon deserves to be mention again, because just hearing its name makes me want to never be submerged in water ever again.

GOD, I HATE THIS POST. HOW DO WE EVEN KNOW THAT SHIT ISN’T STILL AROUND? LURKING? EVOLVING? WE DON’T. WE DON’T KNOW SHIT ABOUT SHIT DOWN THERE. THE OCEAN IS A PRIMEVAL HELLSCAPE NIGHTMARE AND WE ALL JUST DIP OUR STUPID FRAGILE UNPROTECTED FETUS BODIES AROUND THE EDGES OF IT LIKE THAT’S NORMAL. FUCK THE OCEAN.

except new research with the giant sea scorpion suggests it was not highly predatory

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charminglyantiquated:

a little love story about mermaids and tattoos

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dear-white-people:

YOU DEMANDED IT! Check out the full-length official trailer for Dear White People before it hits theaters this weekend. 

#HITSHARE #TURNUP #BELIEVETHEHYPE

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